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The Hardest Job a Man May Ever Have

Male Caregivers

Isolation and Loneliness Are Common

For Duckett, the most difficult aspect of his role as caregiver is the total isolation. "This encompasses both the person afflicted and the person who cares. One is not able to get out and mingle in society. Friends don't come around anymore."

Eikenberry and his wife are trying to avoid the isolation that Duckett describes by going public with her disease. He says it is tempting to try to "manage within ourselves," but they decided to be "quite open with it because Margie behaves differently and friends will notice. If they don't know what's causing the difference, they will make up reasons for it."

Duckett, who lives about 35 miles outside of Tacoma, Wash., says he has been helped greatly by an outreach program from a local hospital, Good Samaritan. "They sent a nurse who does an assessment and who helps me access the services that I need," says Duckett. He says, too, that the nurse urged him to get involved in support groups. He did this but found that most of the group members are women. "I felt I didn't belong, so I tried to start a group for men, but that didn't pan out."

Realizing that his caregiving responsibilities are likely to increase with time, Eikenberry says he has already investigated support groups and identified two local support groups for Parkinson's caregivers. He says, however, that he doesn't know if he'll find other men in those groups.

Paul Lindsley, an executive at Opryland Hotel in Nashville, Tenn. is in his early 30s, but he is still facing the caregiving challenges described by Duckett and Eikenberry. He is a caregiver for his 32-year-old wife, who has multiple sclerosis. He also serves as the state representative for the National Family Caregiver's Association.

Lindsley says his wife was diagnosed before they were married, so he went into the marriage knowing full well that he was likely to be both husband and caregiver. His wife has a type of MS called relapsing/remitting disease, which means that the disease can be dormant for many months and then flare up, creating extreme fatigue and affecting balance, movement, and vision.

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