Breastfeeding: Get the Support You Need
Birth Team Advice: On-the-Spot Breastfeeding Support
Whether you have a home or hospital birth, you'll receive free nursing advice from your obstetrician, midwife, doula, and/or nurses at the hospital immediately after your baby is born. Your newborn's pediatrician will also be able to offer guidance. Laila Weir, who lives in Portland, Ore., says she found nursing challenging at first -- but the nurses at the hospital where her son Luca was born gave her lots of support and reassurance.
"I asked every nurse who came into the room, 'Am I doing it right?' and they really helped me," she says. After she brought Luca home, a nurse from the hospital called to see how she and the baby were doing and asked specifically about breastfeeding.
Too much breastfeeding advice can become another problem. Some new mothers find a barrage of birth team advice confusing. After San Francisco mother Jessica Kitchingham's baby, Sydney, was delivered on Christmas Eve last year, she began breastfeeding almost immediately. They stayed in the hospital for a few days because Jessica had had a Cesarean delivery, and one morning a nurse congratulated her on her nursing progress.
"She said we were doing better than anyone else on the maternity ward," Kitchingham recalls. "But later that same day, a different nurse told us Sydney was losing weight and instructed us to supplement with formula."
Looking back, Kitchingham thinks Sydney's weight loss was nothing to worry about -- it's normal for babies to lose weight right after they're born. But the incident shook the new mom's confidence.
"Once my milk came in, she began gaining just fine, but I still felt really incompetent," she says. "She'd sometimes get fussy when she was nursing, and I was sure I was doing something wrong." For Kitchingham, the solution was a breastfeeding consultant.
Lactation Consultants: Nursing Support at Home
If you have trouble nursing your newborn or just want a few tips and a dose of comfort, consider hiring a lactation consultant. They provide breastfeeding information and training; a consultant will observe you as you nurse your baby and offer suggestions. Lactation consultations can be pricey: $100 per hour or more, depending on where you live. But often one or two visits are enough, and are well worth it to many mothers for the support they provide right in your own home.