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7 Things You Didn't Know About Raising Newborn Twins
Even experienced moms may not know what to expect when they bring home newborn twins.
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While it is true that twins can bring double the joy, parenting twins can also require double the work -- at least initially. The key is to be prepared.
"This is survival mode," says Atlanta-based pediatric nurse Jennifer Walker, RN, co-author (along with Laura Hunter) of The Moms on Call Guide to Basic Baby Care and the mother of twins. To better prepare yourself, here are seven things that many new moms and dads may not know about parenting twins.
No. 1. No schedule means no life (for you).
"It's hard enough with a single baby, but when you have newborn twins, things have to be on a schedule," Walker says. "You want to get the babies on the same feeding and napping schedules. They will eventually learn to adapt." (You won't if the newborn twins are not on a schedule!)
No. 2. You can breastfeed both babies at the same time -- really!
"If you breastfeed, you can feed both babies at the same time with one twin on each breast, but it takes great coordination and patience," Walker tells WebMD. "I personally did not like the way it felt."
She recalls that breastfeeding her newborn twins felt like she was balancing two bobbing heads. The solution? "I breast-fed one and bottle-fed the other," she says. "I would sit down on the floor while breastfeeding one infant, while the other infant lay on a pillow in front of me or on my side with a bottle, so the whole feeding experience would take me 45 minutes -- total."
No. 3. One crib is fine in the beginning.
"Newborn twins can certainly remain in the same crib initially," Walker says. "If they sleep better when they know the other is close by, crib-sharing can last up until they move into their childhood beds."
Many parents may make the switch to two cribs when the twins begin to roll, bump into one another and wake each other up, she says.
While one crib is fine, two car seats and a double-stroller are absolute musts for newborn twins.
No. 4. Newborn twins may be more likely to have respiratory problems.
Newborn twins are more likely than singletons to be born early and underweight. "Preemies often do have more respiratory issues because their lungs may not be as developed as babies born at term," explains Alan Rosenbloom, MD, a New York City-based pediatrician. This doesn't mean that both premature newborn twins will have respiratory issues, however. "If you have two premature twins born at 32 weeks and one needs a breathing tube, this twin may be more likely to have respiratory issues down the road than a twin who had slightly more mature lungs and only needed some oxygen via a nasal cannula."
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