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Your Newborn's Sleep

Caring for any newborn is a lot of work, but it's even harder when parents are sleep-deprived and exhausted.

The good news is that by 4-6 months most babies have developed a regular sleep pattern and the ability to sleep through the night. The bad news is that, until that time, it's unrealistic and unfair to expect your baby to be a great sleeper. In the first months, the average infant sleeps around 13 to 16 hours or so, but that sleep may occur unpredictably and for just a few hours at a time.

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As the brain matures over the first months, you'll probably begin to see a sleep pattern emerge: longer periods of sleep (hopefully at night), more activity during the day, less activity at night, and more sleep during growth spurts. (Much of growth occurs during sleep.)

Tips for Parents of Newborns:

  • Keep your expectations realistic. Plan for unpredictable, sporadic sleep for your baby -- and therefore for you -- in the first few months.
  • Don't try to sleep train your baby yet. It's too early to let your baby "cry it out." Since it takes 3-6 months for a baby's brain to mature enough to establish a regular pattern and to sleep through the night, wait until then to try sleep training.
  • Once feeding is well-established, never wake a sleeping baby during the night. Your baby’s pediatrician will give you advice for your individual baby, but typically, once your newborn has regained her birth weight, usually by 2 weeks of age, it will not be necessary to wake your child to eat at night. For premature or special-needs babies, you may need to adjust feedings.
  • Check for signs of illness if baby's sleep pattern changes suddenly. It may be that baby is awakened by an ear infection. It may be simply a new turn in her development or a case of baby being overstimulated.
  • Never prop a baby bottle in your infant's mouth when you put her to bed. It can lead to choking and ear infections.

 

Signs That Your Baby Is Tired

Your baby will let you know if she or he needs sleep. Here are signs of tiredness:

  • Rubbing eyes
  • Yawning
  • Looking away from you
  • Fussing

 

Establishing Sleep Patterns for Your Baby

Parents can set the stage now for baby's good sleep patterns to emerge in the future. Try the following:

  1. Regulate your baby's day-night sleep cycle. As soon as possible, try to teach your baby that "night time is when we sleep, and daytime is when we have fun."
    • During daylight hours, keep things stimulating and active for baby. Play with her a lot. Try to keep her awake after feeds, although don't worry if she conks out.
    • When it's dark, become a more low-key, boring parent for your baby. Feed her in a semi-darkened room. Cut down on all stimulation (e.g. keep light and noise soft and low). Hopefully, she'll learn that daytime is fun time and night time is boring, so she might as well sleep when it's dark outside.
  2. Begin to teach your baby to fall asleep on her own. Don't rock or feed your baby in order to get her to sleep, or she may become dependent on those soothing techniques. The goal is that when she awakens in the middle of the night (as most babies do), she will be able to get herself back to sleep without the need for you to hold her.
    • After a few weeks (when everyone is not so sleep-deprived and things are settling down), begin to put your baby to bed when she is awake and drowsy whenever you can, so she learns to fall asleep on her own.
    • Your goal should be to try to establish a sleep pattern when it's possible. If your baby dozes right after a feed, don't wake her just so you can put her back to sleep. This is a skill that may take months to learn. If you are reasonably consistent in your efforts, she will get the message.
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