Choosing the Right Sport for Your Child
Try these strategies to help your child find a sport.
Challenge yourself to find out what parts of being active your child likes. Then try to find an activity that channels her passion. "Look for something they can succeed at and have fun doing," says Michael Bergeron, PhD, director of the National Institute for Athletic Health and Performance and Center for Youth Sports and Health in Sioux Falls, S.D.
If soccer doesn't work, try basketball, swimming, dance, or martial arts. "If they're not allowed to play during games and aren't feeling good about themselves, they are in the wrong sport or at the wrong level," Bergeron says.
Match sports activities to your child's ability. This can get more difficult the older kids get. "A lot of sports programs are designed to develop the elite kids," says Bergeron. "More and more attention is focused on the best athletes. Meanwhile, the average kids who aren't on the starting lineup may get left behind."
And that can take a toll on teen self-confidence. "Many end up dropping out of sports in high school," Bergeron tells WebMD.
Kids who aren't star athletes may feel more at home on a church, YMCA, or community center team, Anderson says. They may get more playing time and be more successful.
Get Kids Moving at Every Age
It's never too late to get your child interested in moving. Here are a few simple tips to help your child build athletic self-confidence no matter his age.
- Share your skills. "Young kids like to practice motor skills," Anderson says. So patiently teach them how to play catch, kick a ball, swing a bat, ride a bike, skate, or swim.
- Shoo them outside. "Supervised outdoor time is very important," says Anderson. Spending time outdoors gives kids unstructured time to play and have fun.
- Sign them up for kids' sports teams. "Expose children to a variety of activities and let them find the ones that are most fun for them," Martin says.
- Support, don't push. Show up for events to watch your child play -- "not to live out your athletic dreams through your child," Martin says. "You don't want to be one of those hardcore parents you seeing yelling at the refs." Instead, all you have to do is sit back, relax, visit with the other parents, and cheer your child on.