Maybe things got lax during school vacation and the kids stayed up late playing video games. Or life has just gotten so hectic that you’ve had to rely on the TV as a babysitter and takeout meals to survive.
Whatever the reason, your family’s healthy habits have gotten off track. It’s happened to all of us. Fear not! You do have the power to re-establish your family’s healthy habits. It’s all about routine.
"Having a predictable routine is essential for every family," says Eric M. Anderman, PhD, a professor of educational psychology at Ohio State University.
Rule #1 -- Start small and make changes slowly.
Yes! You’ve decided to take control of the situation and you’re ready to go! Great! Deciding to get back on track can be hard to do -- nice job. Yes, getting started right away is a good idea, but go easy. If your home life has gotten chaotic, trying to change all the rules overnight is likely to backfire. You don’t have to think of it as all or nothing. Make it easier on yourself and your kids -- take it slow.
"Establish the family routine one piece at a time," says Anderman. "Once you get the first change down, move on to the next one." For example, work on bedtime and then phase in the other routines over a few weeks. Setting smaller goals sets you up for success, and you’ll be more likely to keep at it!
Two Family Routines to Focus on:
Recommit to bedtime. During a vacation or a stressful time at home, bedtimes can get later and later. Kids between ages 5 and 10 need more sleep than you think -- 10 to 11 hours a night.
"The effect of sleep deprivation on kids is really quite serious," Anderman says. "Their brains just don't function normally on five or six hours of sleep." If your kids are well-rested, they'll be happier, more active, and less likely to overeat. All can help keep them at a healthy weight. Getting back into the swing of things will also be a lot easier if they're not exhausted and grumpy.