Your teen's weight is affecting his health -- physically or mentally -- so as a parent, you're concerned. Perhaps your teen has been diagnosed with a health problem common in overweight teens, such as high blood pressure or sleep apnea. Or maybe your teen has expressed anxiety about his weight.
Whatever the reason, you want to help -- but it's not easy for a parent to know how. While your teen might feel ashamed or even angry about his weight, he may also be resentful if you try to get involved. As much as your teen may want to tackle his problems without help, however, your involvement in managing his weight is important.
You can help your teen make changes to his diet and exercise habits that will put him on a healthier track.
Set the Stage for Success
Talk with your pediatrician about your overweight teen's BMI.
The first step is to talk with an expert about your teen's weight. Ask your health care provider to calculate your teen's body mass index (BMI). BMI is one way to measure body fat percentage, based on weight and height. Your pediatrician can then compare your child's result with other teens his age. If his BMI falls within the overweight or obese range, talk with the pediatrician about what your teen's weight goals should be. Whether weight loss is recommended for your teen will depend on several things, including:
- How overweight he is
- If he has weight-related health problems ( high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol or leg pains)
- If he has been trying to lose weight and, if so, for how long
The initial goal for the majority of overweight teens is often to maintain their weight and "grow into it" as they get taller. Keep in mind that even maintaining a current weight is much healthier than continuing to gain excess weight. When teen weight loss is advised, experts usually don't recommend losing more than 2 pounds a week.