The holidays should be about making good memories, not about making things perfect.
Do think about what's important. Happiness and fulfillment lie in the balance between self-care and caring for others.
Do socialize. If you're feeling lonely, find a church or community center where you can be with other people.
Don't watch TV. Most programs are not designed to make you a better person, or even feel better.
Don't spend so much. You don't have to buy electronic entertainment equipment that far exceeds the human sensory capability to detect the difference.