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Are Allergies Ruining Your Sex Life?

Don't let symptoms like red eyes and a runny nose ruin your sex life. Fight back with these tips on preventing and treating allergies.

Controlling allergy symptoms

No matter what’s behind allergies’ sex-squashing effect, experts say you may be able to improve life between the sheets if you take steps to control allergy symptoms. They point to a 1995 study by Turkish researchers showing that, among people suffering from chronic sinusitis (which causes symptoms similar to those caused by allergies), treating symptoms seemed to improve sexual satisfaction.

Doctors agree that the first line of defense should be limiting your exposure to allergy-causing substances (allergens), such as pollen, dust mites, pet dander, and molds that grow in soil and inside homes.

When pollen counts are high, spend as much time as you can indoors with the windows shut and the air conditioner on. When you do go out, wearing oversized sunglasses can help keep pollen out of your eyes -- especially on windy days. Driving somewhere? Keep the windows closed and run the A/C.

To check pollen and mold levels in your area, go to the American Academy of Allergy Asthma & Immunology web site.

Change your clothes after coming in on high-pollen days, and wash your hair at night before going to bed. It may help to clean eyelids with tear-free shampoo. To get rid of excessive mucus, use a saline nasal spray or a Neti pot to irrigate your nose.

What else? Replace allergen-trapping curtains with shades, and instead of rugs and carpeting, go with floor coverings like wood or tile, which are easier to clean. A HEPA air filter can help, too. And what about Rover? “Seventy percent of pet owners sleep with their pets, and 54% of people are allergic to their pets,” says Benninger. If you're allergic, keep the four-legged members of the family out of the bedroom.

No matter who sleeps in your bed, wash bedding frequently in water that’s at least 130 F. Encase pillows and mattresses in covers that are impermeable to dust mites. “If you’ve had the same pillow for 10 years, it might be time to get a new one,” says Smith.

Not sure what’s causing your allergies? Have an allergy specialist perform a skin test to pinpoint the culprit. It’s safe and takes less than 20 minutes.

When more help is needed

Recent studies show that allergy shots (immunotherapy) may be 90% effective at controlling allergy symptoms. But because it can take months to become fully effective, immunotherapy makes most sense for patients with severe or unusually persistent allergies -- and people who cannot take other allergy medications.

Fortunately, allergy sufferers can often get substantial relief from over-the-counter and prescription pills, nasal sprays, and eye drops. If your symptoms are already making you too tired to have sex, consider one of the newer, nonsedating antihistamines. Talk to your doctor about whether prescription medication for your allergies might help.

The bottom line is that allergies can almost always be controlled. That’s something to remember next time you turn your back on your partner in bed -- or your partner turns away from you. “Just because someone with allergies has a bad sex life doesn’t mean that their sex lives will improve if they get their allergies treated,” says Smith. “But it certainly won’t hurt.”

Reviewed on February 18, 2010

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