Forget "Octo Mom." The hot debate among in vitro fertilization (IVF) patients and their doctors isn't about having lots of babies at once. It's about trying for twins. Patients who want twins point to the high costs of IVF, their ticking biological clocks, and their frustration and exhaustion from lengthy fertility struggles. They ask, why not have two at a time?
Leslie Glass says she did want twins when she turned to IVF.
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Amanda Gifford, "It's a lot of heartache," but "I still wouldn't do anything differently."
Her reasoning: "It was so expensive and I knew that this would probably be it for us," Glass tells WebMD. "If we get twins, all the better, because whether we had twins or one, it's still $22,000. So if this is it, then let's just complete the family."
But doctors say it's risky.
Compared to having one baby, twins and other multiples are more likely to have serious -- and even life-threatening -- health problems, including preterm birth, low birth weight, and birth defects.
"[Patients] are so focused on getting pregnant in any way, shape, or form that the concerns with multiples are secondary," Alan Peaceman, MD, professor and chief of maternal-fetal medicine at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, tells WebMD.
"Sometimes, they just don't understand how bad 'bad' can be," Peaceman says.
And just like that, one of the most intimate decisions an adult can make -- how many children to have -- becomes a medical, ethical, and personal minefield that can pit patient against doctor. Here are the pros and cons from each side of the debate.
IVF Cost, Insurance a Factor
It's rare for IVF patients to bluntly request twins, and few ask for triplets or more, but many mention a desire for twins, IVF doctors tell WebMD.
That happens "all the time," says Mark Perloe, MD, medical director of Georgia Reproductive Specialists in Atlanta.
Suheil Muasher, MD, medical director of the Muasher Center for Fertility and IVF in Fairfax, Va., agrees.
"A good number of my patients would kind of joke about it and say, 'We would like to have twins,'" says Muasher. "Most of the time they don't demand it, but it is something desirable for them."
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