11 "Don't-Tell-the-Husband" Secrets All Wives Keep
women are well aware that most of the time we're a profound mystery to men. And
for the most part, we like it that way. But the thought has occurred to just
about every woman: Would it really be so bad if he knew _________ about me?
Wouldn't it help him understand me better? And more importantly, Wouldn't he
annoy me less if he knew what I really wanted?
So for the benefit of women everywhere (and for your benefit too,
guys-remember, a happy woman makes for a much happier man), we're going to let
men in on a little of what really makes us tick, deep down. Read on for 11
near-universal secrets of womankind. Some may shock you, others may be things
you've suspected for a long time (but never had the nerve to ask about). But
know this: the woman in your life? She's hiding more secrets than these,
including a few you'd never imagine. Lucky you-you get to spend a lifetime
learning them all.
1. Everything we buy for ourselves-shoes, a skirt, even just stuff from the drugstore-really costs 20 percent more than we tell you it did.
Just because it's a classic sitcom plot doesn't mean it isn't true.
"Sometimes I'll buy an outfit and charge half of it on our credit card and
pay for the other half in cash so my husband doesn't know what I'm actually
spending," admits one 32-year-old, who requested anonymity to protect her
sneaky secret. Yeah, we know honesty is the best policy, hiding your spending
habits is bad, blah blah blah. But sometimes we just don't want the hassle of
arguing over the price of the fancy shampoo. Is that so wrong? We don't think
2. We actually think about sex-with you!-a lot
Sometimes we think about it all day long. It's just that by the end of the
day we're too damn tired to do anything about it. Now, if you could only catch
us at lunchtime....
3. We're just as nervous about commitment as you are.
True, many girls grow up dreaming of Prince Charming, the white wedding, and
happily ever after. But we're human, just like you, and when it comes down to
the reality of tying our life to another person's, we get scared, too. "The
idea of getting married completely freaked me out at first," says my friend
Lisa, 34. "I know this sounds like a guy cliché, but I saw it as giving up
my independence and being tied down." The good news is, once we're hitched,
we're generally pretty delighted about it. Says Lisa, "Now that I am
married, having a life commitment is so comforting and wonderful. I love
knowing that we are a team and that we're going to be on the same team