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Spicing Up a Long-Term Relationship

Jazz Up Your Love Life

WebMD Feature
Reviewed by Gary D. Vogin, MD

Dec. 24, 2001 -- We all fall into a rut sometimes. Without some concerted effort, you may do things the same way repeatedly, whether it's the side of the bed you sleep on, how you brush your teeth, or the way you and your partner have (or don't have) sex.

Relationships need attention. In fact, they thrive on it. Here are some ideas to get your love life jump-started today.

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