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    Spicing Up a Long-Term Relationship

    Jazz Up Your Love Life

    WebMD Feature
    Reviewed by Gary D. Vogin, MD

    Dec. 24, 2001 -- We all fall into a rut sometimes. Without some concerted effort, you may do things the same way repeatedly, whether it's the side of the bed you sleep on, how you brush your teeth, or the way you and your partner have (or don't have) sex.

    Relationships need attention. In fact, they thrive on it. Here are some ideas to get your love life jump-started today.

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    Take a moment to think about your partner. Then respond accordingly. If he's a party boy, take him out for a night on the town. If she loves opera, buy last-minute tickets. If he's a private person, take the kids out of his hair for the weekend. The possibilities are infinite.

    Seize the Day

    You do it when you have a big project at work or when you have to find an activity to keep the kids busy. But it may surprise you to see what happens when you take a moment every day of the week to focus on your relationship.

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