Can't Sleep? When to Get Out of Bed

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You wake up in the middle of the night and can't get back to sleep.

Whether you drank one cup of coffee too many earlier, or you've got a lot on your mind, it's time to decide whether to get up or stay in bed.

Getting out of bed makes sense at some point. Tossing and turning endlessly isn't going to help.

If you do get up, though, you're not giving up for the night. You still need rest. So your goal should be to get back to sleep as soon as possible.

Some activities help with that. Others put sleep even further out of reach.

What you do now, in the wee hours, will affect how the rest of your night goes. That could make all the difference in how you feel tomorrow.

Try This Before You Get Up

Give yourself about 10 more minutes in bed. While you're lying there, try not to watch the minutes tick by.

Worrying about how long you've been awake backfires. It "perpetuates insomnia," says Russell Rosenberg, MD, chairman of the board of the National Sleep Foundation.

He recommends keeping clocks out of sight and guessing how long you've been lying there.

If you're still awake after what feels like 10 minutes, it's time to get up for a little while.

At that point, "trying to make yourself fall back asleep is counterproductive," Rosenberg says. "The harder you try, the more elusive sleep becomes."

What to Do After You Get Up

As comfy as your bed may be, it's best to leave your bedroom when you get up.

"You really want to think of your bedroom as a place to sleep," not as a place for other activities, says Clete Kushida, MD, PhD, medical director of the Stanford Center for Sleep Sciences and Medicine.

Do something "mildly entertaining" but "sedate," Rosenberg says, until you're sleepy enough to go back to bed.

For instance:

  • Read.
  • Listen to music.
  • Meditate.
  • Do relaxation exercises.

Choose something calming and soothing that will nudge you in the direction of sleep. Avoid doing anything that will rev you up and make it harder to doze off.

There are a couple of exceptions to the get-out-of-bed advice. If you're taking medications that make you groggy, or if you have balance problems, you're better off staying in bed for safety's sake.