On The Real Housewives of Orange County, you faced a serious health
threat. What happened?
My doctor found a malignant mole -- a shallow melanoma in early stages -- on
my thigh, a few inches above my knee. I've faced skin cancer before, but I
never intended to share this "reality" on the show. Now, I'm glad I
did. Since the show has aired, several people have told me they've gotten their
skin checked because of me -- and it thrills me to hear it.
Skin cancer is a disease in which malignant (cancer) cells form in the tissues of the skin.
The skin is the body's largest organ. It protects against heat, sunlight, injury, and infection. Skin also helps control body temperature and stores water, fat, and vitamin D. The skin has several layers, but the two main layers are the epidermis (upper or outer layer) and the dermis (lower or inner layer).
The epidermis is made up of 3 kinds of cells:
Squamous cells are the thin, flat cells that...
At age 27 -- 17 years ago. I went in for acne treatments and my doctor
gasped. He removed 22 moles from my body. He tested them all, and one came back
Were you a sun worshipper when you were young?
I got a tremendous amount of sun exposure as a child. All the damage was
done before I was 25.
You write on your Bravo blog that you had an eye sewn shut for two
months after half of your lower eyelid was removed due to skin cancer. Tell us
about this experience.
I had a tiny tumor near my tear duct. It was not malignant, but I still tell
everyone: Wear sunglasses! Make sure your children wear sunglasses! Protect
How much has changed in the last two decades, in terms of prevention
and treatment of skin cancers?
Not enough. It will take someone like Brad Pitt getting melanoma to get the
kind of funding needed to get the research done that this cancer needs.
Any advice for other mothers trying to keep their families safe from
When my kids were little, it wasn't hard keeping them covered up. Now they
want to be at the beach with their friends -- and not look dorky in long
sleeves. But there are companies that make cute clothes that have sunscreen
built into the fabrics. Also, be creative. Don't tell your teenager she can't
go to the beach. Instead, plan an indoor activity for her and her friends --
like going to a cool sushi bar or a museum -- then take them to the beach after
4 p.m. Watch the sunset together.
Since facing cancer, do you view your life or relationships
Completely. Yes, plan for the future. But enjoy the moment. Share your
feelings for someone right now. Take more risks. Have a sense of adventure.
How do you feel about aging?
I like it. I am more confident in my 40s than I was in my 20s. I've got a
great husband, great kids; I'm more direct. And physically? Well, I do look at
my skin and wish I didn't get so much sun.
As a society, are we are growing more obsessed with appearance? Or
is it a matter of wanting to look and feel great to be healthy?