Pro-Anorexia Web Sites: The Thin Web Line
Are these web sites fueling an epidemic?
Anorexia Sites Offer Lessons to Be Learned continued...
What's more, many pro-recovery sites, no matter how well done they are, are
created by parents, doctors, counselors -- in short, adults.
"They're not specifically aimed at teens and very young adults, or
created by them, and they don't necessarily provide the same level of
understanding or forum for expression," says Peebles. "It illuminates
what we need to be searching for in terms of a better forum: something that can
make someone who's ambivalent, and needs to express both feelings, feel
That's a complicated proposition: how do you create such a site that remains
teen-friendly, but doesn't worsen the eating disorder, while at the same time
not making it patronizing? Peebles hopes future research will shed light on
that question, but acknowledges that it's a challenging task.
Lizzy, for her part, says she strives to make sure her site addresses the
dark realities of eating disorders, rather than merely glamorizing them.
"Most other pro-ana sites are just all, 'Yay ana! It's the best!' They
don't show how awful and horrible and miserable it is," she says.
Often, people will email her asking that she "teach them" how to be
anorexic or bulimic. "That scares me. I tell them to read the sections
about how it's not fun and games. It's not glamorous. I want them to know about
the pain and the physical damage that comes from it, how you're cold all the
time and you can't walk up the stairs because you have no energy. How your hair
falls out and your skin gets all gross and yellow, and you start burning your
muscles and the organs. People don't think about that."