Teens: Take a Stand on Drugs
If you’re a parent reading this, print it out and give it to your teen. If you’re a teen, print it out and talk it over with your parents or friends.
Despite what lots of people assume, studies show that most teens don’t use drugs. So if you’ve decided not to do them yourself, you’re standing with the majority. Here are some tips on how to make your life easier.
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- Rehearse what you’ll say if you’re offered drugs. Don’t get caught by surprise when someone asks if you want to get high. Decide how you want to respond now. Keep in mind that saying no doesn’t need to be a big deal. You don’t have to give your reasons. You don’t need to prepare for a cross examination. “No thanks,” will probably work.
- Think ahead and avoid trouble. If a classmate’s parents are going out of town and he’s having a party, you know that people will be using alcohol and drugs at it. It’s best not to go to the party. If someone you know who does drugs asks for a ride to a sketchy part of town but won’t say why, it’s a safe bet that he may plan to buy drugs. If you can anticipate situations where you know you’ll be exposed to drugs and alcohol, you can learn to avoid them before you get drawn in.
- Choose your close friends wisely. Sometimes, people you know will pressure you to go along with using drugs and alcohol. Some may be unhappy and want company. But you may have a better future in mind for yourself. Be prepared to distance yourself from friends who who use drugs and want to drag you down their path. If you have a friend who won’t respect the decision you’ve made, he’s not a friend.
- Don’t be a supplier. Even if you’re not using drugs and alcohol yourself, people you know might push you to get substances for them – maybe by sneaking cough medicine from home or shoplifting it. Don’t let that happen.
- Find better ways to deal with stress and have fun. Sometimes, you may feel like an outsider if you don’t use drugs. But that’s not the case at all. Remember: you’re in the majority. So figure out ways to meet more of the people who are enjoying themselves without using drugs. Get involved with music, try out for the school play, take up a sport, join a school club, or volunteer in your community.
- Get involved. Taking a stand against drugs and alcohol is often just a personal decision, and you can keep it that way. But if you feel a lot of passion about the issue, go public. Look into local anti-drug community coalitions – you can find information about them from CADCA (www.cadca.org, 800-54-CADCA.) Community coalitions are groups of students, teachers, parents, and local leaders who are working to keep their communities drug-free. They’re a great way to socialize with people who share your beliefs. You can meet friends, plan drug-free parties and activities, and learn ways to help out kids who have questions about drug use.
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