By Jennifer Warner
Rather than letting fear and anxiety restrict your life choices and leave
you in a rut, experts say you can look at a midlife crisis as an opportunity
for personal growth.
Linda Sapadin, author of Master Your Fears: How to Triumph over Your Worries
and Get on with Your Life, recommends these steps for using a midlife crisis to
Do one gutsy thing. Do something despite feeling uncomfortable or fearful
about it. "That's one way to move outside of your comfort...
A labyrinth is not a maze. There is only one way in and one way out, so you don't need to think about where you're going.
They've got ancient roots. They’re found on Greek pottery, on Spanish petroglyphs or rock carvings, and, in walkable form, on the floors of medieval cathedrals in Europe.
Now there are thousands of labyrinths, in places like public parks, houses of worship, and medical centers. More than 100 hospitals, hospices, and health care facilities in the U.S. have walkable labyrinths.
Labyrinth Walking Benefits
Strolling through a labyrinth can help you feel the relaxation response, which is the opposite of the stress "fight or flight" state, says Herbert Benson, MD, founder of the Benson-Henry Institute for Mind Body Medicine at Massachusetts General Hospital and author of Relaxation Revolution.
More than 30 years of research shows that the relaxation response brings slower breathing, a slower heart rate, and lower blood pressure, among other things, Benson says.
Lorelei King, RN, former director of surgery at Mercy Hospital in Grayling, MI, says she's seen firsthand the impact on patients who walk the hospital's labyrinth. "You can visually see them relax. Afterward, when I take their pulse, it's often slowed down dramatically. I've also had many patients tell me that their pain has decreased after walking the labyrinth."
When Liza Ingrasci was diagnosed with stage II breast cancer at age 52, she faced the stress of her own treatment, plus her sister's treatment for lung cancer at the same time.
"I was stretched emotionally and physically thinner than I'd ever been and needed to reduce the fear and anxiety about my own life-threatening illness as well as my sister's," says Ingrasci, chief executive officer of a nonprofit foundation in San Rafael, CA. She decided to make part of her healing a weekly walk through a labyrinth in a church in a nearby city.
More than 7 years later, and cancer-free, she still occasionally walks the labyrinth "to acknowledge important passages. It really helps."