Denise McVey knows holiday stress all too well. To be sure, she loves the
holidays: going caroling, shopping, buying cards, enjoying the first snow, and,
most of all, loving the look of delight on her toddler’s face on Christmas
morning. But as the days until the holidays dwindle and the lines at the mall
get longer, McVey is so beset by season-induced stress that, when the New Year
rolls around, she’s spent. “Colds, flu, you name it, every year I get it; I’ve
had shingles eight times,” says...
The key is to stop stress before it stops you. It's simpler than you might think: Solve stressful problems when you can. And when you can't, connect with other people, and get active.
13 Tips to Ease Stress
Use these tips to help keep stress at bay.
Ask yourself what you can do about the sources of your stress. Think through the pros and cons. Take action where you can.
Keep a positive, realistic attitude. Accept that although you can't control certain things, you're in charge of how you respond.
Stand up for yourself in a polite way. Share your feelings, opinions, or beliefs, instead of becoming angry, defensive, or passive.
Learn and practice relaxation techniques. Try breathing exercises, meditation, prayer, yoga, or tai chi.
Exercise regularly. You'll feel better and be more prepared to handle problems.
Eat healthy. Avoid too much sugar. Focus on fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein. When you're stressed, you'll probably want less-nutritious comfort foods, but if you overdo them, they'll add to your problems.
Try to manage your time wisely.
Say no, where you can, to things that would add more stress to your life.
Make time for hobbies and interests.
Get enough rest and sleep. Your body needs time to recover from stressful events.
Don't rely on alcohol, drugs, or food to help against stress. Ease up on caffeine, too.
Spend time with people you love.
Talk with a counselor or take a stress management class for more help.
How Does Stress Affect Health?
Stress that continues without relief can lead to headaches, an upset stomach, high blood pressure, chest pain, problems with sleeping or sex, depression, panic attacks, or other forms of anxiety and worry.
On top of that, if you handle stress with food, alcohol, drugs, tobacco, gambling, overspending, or other things that don't solve the problem, you're going to end up with more stress.
What Are the Warning Signs of Stress?
Chronic, ongoing stress can wear down the body's natural defenses, leading to symptoms including:
Dizziness or a general feeling of "being out of it"