Don't Let the Holiday Blues Derail Your Diet
Keep your good cheer (and your weight-loss plan) intact
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For example, if you don't have an invitation to a holiday dinner, make
"Consider volunteering at a Feed the Hungry dinner," Wallin says.
"Focus on someone other than yourself. If you're elderly and isolated, call
some people. Just a call to say 'How are you?' is very much appreciated at the
To keep yourself from feeling deprived during the holidays, don't banish all
your favorite foods.
If you're feeling self-conscious about your weight -- for example, about how
family members will react when they see you -- give yourself a reality check.
"They're not going to reject you," says Wallin. "Do you reject
people based on how much they weigh?"
"After all, Aunt Hilda's brownies come around only once a year,"
says Wallin. "But if you tend to pig out on cookies, don't go to cookie
parties. Have a couple at home, and stop there."
It's also important to get plenty of rest. One recent study showed that
sleep deficiency is very stressful on the body.
"Stress wears you down during the day. When you're tired, you lose your
willpower and you get into arguments easily," Wallin tells WebMD. You're
also more prone to overeat, or to feel the holiday blues.
And by preparing yourself for the situation, you can keep such negative
thoughts in check.
Her advice: "If you feel self-conscious, you're better to deflect it
right away. If you bring it up, it won't be an issue any more. Tell them,
'Other than this weight I've gained, I'm doing great.' Then change the
Avoiding social events can just sink you farther into the holiday blues. So
if you're shy at parties, go prepared with some small talk.
"It's the concept of 'the elevator speech': a 60-second spiel about
yourself, maybe about your job or your recent trip to England, or
whatever," says Wallin. "Or ask other people about themselves. Comment
on what they're wearing, on the flashy earrings, on what you're eating. Talk
about anything. Parties aren't about what you say, they're about relating to
And go early. "When only a few people have arrived, it might be easier
to talk," Wallin says. "Plan how long you'll stay, maybe half an hour.
You don't have to stay for two hours.
When you're feeling low and tempted to blow your diet, focus on taming your
"When we feel sorry for ourselves, we rationalize pigging out,"
Wallin says. "I call that voice inside the 'inner brat'; the part of you
that wants it now! "If you can visualize that inner brat, even give it a
name, think of it as a 4-year-old child, you're getting it under control,"
says Wallin. "Who's the boss, the brat or you? Let the brat eat one cookie,
then say, 'That'll do you.' Wait 10 minutes, do something else, and see if the
brat still wants another cookie. You might be surprised; you may not want