syndrome by proxy (MSBP) is a mental health problem in which a caregiver makes
up or causes an illness or injury in a child under his or her care. The
caregiver is usually a mother, and the victim is her child. Because children
are the victims, MSBP is a form of
Kris Oser, 37, of Hastings-on-Hudson, N.Y., is an email fiend. A single
mother and director of communications for a market research company, she has to
be immediately accessible to executives and the news media.
That means Oser is often on the phone and messaging several people at the
same time -- and that can lead to trouble. In one recent gaffe, she mistakenly
emailed a reporter at The Wall Street Journal instead of her best
friend, asking her to pick up Oser’s daughter from school.
Change test results to make a child appear to be
Physically harm the child to produce symptoms.
Victims are most often small children. They may get
painful medical tests they don't need. They may even become seriously ill or
injured or may die because of the actions of the caregiver.
Children who are victims of MSBP can have lifelong physical and emotional
problems and may have
Munchausen syndrome as adults. This is a disorder in
which a person causes or reports his or her own symptoms.
aren't sure what causes it, but it may be linked to problems during the
abuser's childhood. Abusers often feel like their life is out of control. They
often have poor self-esteem and can't deal with stress or anxiety.
The attention that caregivers get from having a sick child may encourage
their behavior. Caregivers may get attention not only from doctors and nurses
but also from others in their community. For example, neighbors may try to help
the family in many ways-such as by doing chores, bringing meals, or giving
How does someone with Munchausen syndrome by proxy act?
A person with MSBP often:
Has medical skills or
Seems devoted to her child.
sympathy and attention.
Tries too hard to become close and friendly
with medical staff.
Needs to feel powerful and in
Does not see her behavior as harmful.
What are the clues that a person may have Munchausen syndrome by proxy?
Checking a child's medical records for past tests, treatments, and hospital stays may help a doctor or nurse find out if a health problem is real.
Doctors or nurses may suspect a problem when:
A child has a repeated or unusual illness,
and no reason can be found.
The child doesn't get better, even with
treatments that should help. Symptoms only occur when the caregiver is with or
has recently been with the child. But symptoms get better or go away when the
caregiver is not there or is being closely watched.
parent (usually the father) is not involved in the child’s treatment, even
though the child's condition may be serious.
A caregiver suddenly
changes doctors and lies about prior testing and treatment.
test results don't reassure the caregiver. And she may be strangely calm or
happy when her child’s condition is getting worse.
The caregiver is
seen (or videotaped or recorded) harming the child or causing
Another child in the family has had unexplained illness