When you think about birth control, your mind probably goes to the pill for women. Researchers are working on one for men, too, but it’s not a reality yet. Still, men have several options to help avoid an unplanned pregnancy.
But if you don’t wear condoms the right way every time you have sex, your chances for an accidental pregnancy can be surprisingly high. Some estimates put it at nearly 1 in 5.
To make sure your condom gets the job done, you should:
Use only latex or polyurethane condoms that you’ve kept in a cool and dry place. Condoms made with lambskin or different materials may not protect against HIV and other viruses.
Avoid carrying condoms in your wallet, where heat and friction could damage them.
Check the expiration date on the wrapper to be sure the condom isn’t too old. Use lubricants that are water- or silicone-based. They’re less likely to break the condom than those with oil. It’s also important to follow these steps when you put on and take off a condom:
- Place the condom on the head of your hard penis. Pinch out any air that may be trapped in the tip, and leave a little space there for your semen.
- Unroll the condom all the way to the base of your penis.
- If you’re uncircumcised, pull back your foreskin before you slide down the condom.
- When you finish intercourse, grab the base of your penis and hold the condom in place while you pull out.
- Throw away the condom.
Vasectomy is also known as “male sterilization.” A surgeon cuts and seals off the tubes that your sperm pass through to reach your testicles. It’s the most effective birth control option for men. Only about 15 out of 10,000 couples get pregnant in the year after a man has the surgery.
After a vasectomy, it takes about 3 months for your semen to be sperm-free.
- It’s simpler, cheaper, and works better than female sterilization.
- You can go home the same day of the surgery.
- It doesn’t change the way sex or ejaculation feels for you or your partner.
- Your semen doesn’t look, smell, or feel any different.
- Vasectomy is pretty much permanent. You’ll likely never be able to have kids again. You can try to undo your vasectomy with another surgery, but this “reversal” doesn’t always work.
- You’ll still need to wear a condom to protect against STDs.
- As with any surgery, you have a small chance of swelling, bleeding, infections, and other complications. But they’re rare and usually not serious.
This term includes all the different kinds of sex or foreplay that don’t involve your penis entering your partner’s vagina. Outercourse can mean:
As long as you keep your penis and semen away from your partner’s vaginal area, conception can’t happen. But the obvious downside is that you can’t have vaginal sex. Also, if you’re having oral or anal sex, you can still get an STD.
Withdrawal (Pulling Out)
It’s called “coitus interruptus” in Latin. Withdrawal is one of the oldest and simplest forms of birth control, but one of the least effective. You pull your penis out of the vagina before you ejaculate.
The pull-out method has a few things going for it. It has no side effects and it costs nothing. And going bare doesn’t interfere with your sexual sensations.
But the method works only if you do it right. That means you need to pull out soon enough so no semen gets on or inside your partner’s vagina. You have to time it right and be quick enough. That can be hard to do, especially if you’re young and haven’t had much sex.
That’s why the pull-out method alone works just 78% of the time. So in a given year, 22 out of 100 couples who rely on it for birth control will end up with a pregnancy.
And the withdrawal method doesn't protect you from STDs.